No, sometimes people make easy choices. Because they're getting by. It doesn't make them sick. It deoesn't make them evil. It makes it a choice, and not a simple one. "Yes, this is familiar. I'll do it." That's not sick, that just picking what they know and sticking to it. And the more you convince yourself of that, the more you're going to have to tell that little girl she's sick and makes bad choices because of that, and not because her life has been a battlefield.