I wouldn't say that. Basically, I had a crush on one basically since I was a kid, but she was a little older than me and didn't return the feelings. A couple years later, I met this other girl, we fell in love, almost got married, but everything kind of fell apart and she broke it off. A while later, the other girl and I started dating, but Kory and I still worked together, and we were still friends. Sometimes it was sort of hard, because I'll always care about her, but she still brings up our history and sort of carries a torch, I just... don't really feel the same way? And didn't when I was with Barbara.

I'm not seeing either of them right now, but I'm still friends with both of them, and it can be a little awkward, but we're all mature enough to respect each other's feelings about the whole thing.